Asebajoe
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So, how are things going at the moment?
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Kinetik
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Registered: 03.Jan.03 |
| theres more fish in the sea.. |
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Dj Traxxlover
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mate..lizzie could be some weird guy making up bullcrap for fun
there are heaps of weirdos on the internet
i got a email from a stranger last week..shes like a hostage in iraq and wants me to send her some money or some sh*t
even if i were a blonde i wouldn't buy that bullcrap
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Cooth
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Kricke wrote on 10 Jul. (0:44) :
When you meet her and explain the whole thing as you have done to us now, there shouldn't be any more problems. And if she still act "cold" to you, you should spit her in her face and walk away.
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Say *what*??
Just because of what has happened she has no right to treat you like a sewer rat. I'm not saying she is doing this though, but time will tell. And as far as I'm concerned the whole thing (the accident) turned out relatively good? Anyhow, sure you can be induligent - to a sertain limit. I hope this work out.
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Do you REALLY think it's all that simple? "Oh ok, my parents have had an accident and I'm all sad and depressed and afraid, so you say I'm just playing with you, but it's okay now, I don't mind."
Somehow it is hard to imagine for me.
Senturio, I'm sorry to say this, but she has the right to feel bad about it, if she trusted you and counted on you it must be really painful. Don't listen to Kricke, just give her time, don't miss an opportunity to prove that you care about her. I believe she will forgive you, but don't expect it will be quick and easy (I don't know how she feels about it, that also depends on her personality)... It usually takes a lot to rebuild broken trust - but if you really care, just don't give up, be her friend.
We here in the forums aren't directly concerned so it's easy to say we understand you etc, but she is probably hurt and it's not that easy for her... but don't give up. I wish you luck there...
Youknowwhatahmean, nudge nudge, wink wink. |
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Chris Edberg
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Hmm, remember I was in a bad mood when I wrote that, but yes that is exactly what he should do IF she is acting cold after he has explained himself and everything in real life. I've been a wimp and tolerated many things myself through my life, and now I'm giving tips not to do that.
Do you REALLY think it's all that simple? "Oh ok, my parents have had an accident and I'm all sad and depressed and afraid, so you say I'm just playing with you, but it's okay now, I don't mind."
Somehow it is hard to imagine for me. |
I don't understand your point.
Senturio, I'm sorry to say this, but she has the right to feel bad about it, if she trusted you and counted on you it must be really painful. Don't listen to Kricke, just give her time, don't miss an opportunity to prove that you care about her. I believe she will forgive you, but don't expect it will be quick and easy (I don't know how she feels about it, that also depends on her personality)... It usually takes a lot to rebuild broken trust - but if you really care, just don't give up, be her friend.
We here in the forums aren't directly concerned so it's easy to say we understand you etc, but she is probably hurt and it's not that easy for her... but don't give up. I wish you luck there... |
After what Senturio wrote I think he has not done any huge mistakes, at least not so he deserves to be treated bad. I dont want to prejudge the girl, but immature girls could take adventage of cases like this it and turn it against someone (Senturio in this case) and then it is not about love. Anyway, this is old news, I dont want to make a real statement - now I'm speaking generally.
And why do you only answer on my post, and why would he listen to me? There are a lot of other comments here.
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slammin vinyl
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Dude! you need to forget all about her, and become an Alien Monkey farmer, like Randor... 
I'm pissed at the world, can you tell? |
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Cooth
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Kricke wrote on 20 Jul. (21:22) :
Hmm, remember I was in a bad mood when I wrote that, but yes that is exactly what he should do IF she is acting cold after he has explained himself and everything in real life. I've been a wimp and tolerated many things myself through my life, and now I'm giving tips not to do that.
Do you REALLY think it's all that simple? "Oh ok, my parents have had an accident and I'm all sad and depressed and afraid, so you say I'm just playing with you, but it's okay now, I don't mind."
Somehow it is hard to imagine for me. |
I don't understand your point.
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The case may not look the same for us, people from the outside of the whole situation, and for the people involved. How can you judge what she should do when she has it explained? You don't know how she feels and how she took it. Emotions aren't something you can always fully control after all.
After what Senturio wrote I think he has not done any huge mistakes, at least not so he deserves to be treated bad. I dont want to prejudge the girl, but immature girls could take adventage of cases like this it and turn it against someone (Senturio in this case) and then it is not about love.
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If that's the issue, then it's a whole new case and my words wouldn't really apply, but I assume she is honest because I have no ground to think differently now.
In fact, once you are involved with someone, you need trust. I would be sorry if I learned a friend does not trust me, which may be dependant on the personality of course.
And why do you only answer on my post, and why would he listen to me? There are a lot of other comments here.
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I simply found your post the most radical.
... Have I just said that?? |
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Randor
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slammy wrote on 21 Jul. (6:28) :
Dude! you need to forget all about her, and become an Alien Monkey farmer, like Randor...
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Damn slammy, remember he have problems with his lovelife....... |
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Chris Edberg
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The case may not look the same for us, people from the outside of the whole situation, and for the people involved. |
That's what Senturio exactly looked for, or else he would probably not post here in the first place.
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How can you judge what she should do when she has it explained? You don't know how she feels and how she took it. Emotions aren't something you can always fully control after all. |
She can do whatever she wants, but my opinion was that to play cold is stupid and rediculous.
If that's the issue, then it's a whole new case and my words wouldn't really apply, but I assume she is honest because I have no ground to think differently now.
In fact, once you are involved with someone, you need trust. I would be sorry if I learned a friend does not trust me, which may be dependant on the personality of course. |
Like you just said, we dont know anything, we have only this text and we interpretate it differently.
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I simply found your post the most radical. |
Thanks
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Current rating: 7,9 (5 reviews; obScene, DDspeed, StOrM 3003, zeos, N.D.) |
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HomesickAlien
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I find that a little "surprise sex" can go a long way towards mending broken fences.
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