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dfast
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Topics: 10
Replies: 430
Registered: 07.Jan.03 |
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VeganRoy wrote on 15 Oct. (22:01) :
D Fast wrote on 15 Oct. (18:59) :
grandpa died, ended the relationship of my life because of something i still don't get aka ruined a totally good relationship which had lasted for a long time, ankle got fucked and ended up in surgery, failed every single exam i had in my school, i suffer from some shitty insomnia (i rarely sleep more than 4 hours every night), i have zero interest/motivation for everything and overally i feel like shit and like i don't belong in to this world. have a wild guess. |
Usually the lack of interest/motivation comes from some bad luck, and because of that u do nothing to improve your life, so u get more bad luck and have even less interest/motivation.. It's a magic circle u gotta break knowingly and intentionally.
Don't have good friends? go out more often, put urself in social situations where u can meet new people.
Broke up with the love of ur life? Start foolin' around..
U fail every single exam? Force urself to do homework and prepare to exams. Maybe ask some cute girl in ur class if she wants to study with u..
I dunno man... Sadness and Happiness are almost always in your hands, ur in charge of how u feel. It's like composing... If you get something u don't like, it won't get better if you won't change it.. u work on ur song till u get something u love, right? Life is exactly like that, So go out there and turn everything around!!
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i'm taking heavy medication for my ankle at the moment, so i'm not really such a good company to others. another thing is the ankle itself, it's really hard for me to move at all mainly because i hate the walking sticks and it's also hard to move around using those damn things. i've got friends, but they're all busy with their lives and the fact that i live in the middle of nothing doesn't help bringing friends over for a cup of coffee or anything. |
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Louigi Verona
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Topics: 384
Replies: 3827
Registered: 22.Aug.03 |
I have the same problem with my friends. My best friend is married and lives in another city. So I got only CTG friends to chat to, my wonderful sister and my parents. My mom and dad are now treating me and sister as their friends, not just like children. Besides I try to make the most of what I got - I learn to compose/produce music, I started to go to diffferent musical concerts, etc. I think sometimes we forget that there are so many great things, not only just our problems... But it is the struggle when you are trying to change your life, push it up to a new level... And the struggle surely is worth it!
So I really want to wish you all a happy life! Let's not waste time on things that are not worth it!   |
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Louigi Verona
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Topics: 384
Replies: 3827
Registered: 22.Aug.03 |
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VeganRoy wrote on 15 Oct. (22:01) :
D Fast wrote on 15 Oct. (18:59) :
grandpa died, ended the relationship of my life because of something i still don't get aka ruined a totally good relationship which had lasted for a long time, ankle got fucked and ended up in surgery, failed every single exam i had in my school, i suffer from some shitty insomnia (i rarely sleep more than 4 hours every night), i have zero interest/motivation for everything and overally i feel like shit and like i don't belong in to this world. have a wild guess. |
Usually the lack of interest/motivation comes from some bad luck, and because of that u do nothing to improve your life, so u get more bad luck and have even less interest/motivation.. It's a magic circle u gotta break knowingly and intentionally.
Don't have good friends? go out more often, put urself in social situations where u can meet new people.
Broke up with the love of ur life? Start foolin' around..
U fail every single exam? Force urself to do homework and prepare to exams. Maybe ask some cute girl in ur class if she wants to study with u..
I dunno man... Sadness and Happiness are almost always in your hands, ur in charge of how u feel. It's like composing... If you get something u don't like, it won't get better if you won't change it.. u work on ur song till u get something u love, right? Life is exactly like that, So go out there and turn everything around!!
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I really think it is the great advice! Without being optimistic you just can't solve problems... |
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Analysis
Artist
Topics: 72
Replies: 6282
Registered: 16.Mar.03 |
I moved outside, away from my parents. I now live with my friends in one house, and although I do have some minor arguements sometimes, I really enjoy it.
The problem is though that I can't seem to motivate myself to do some studiing. I personally still succeed in having good enough rates, as long as the exams aren't about learning some stupid latin words..
Anywayz, I suggest that everyone finds some friends that live near them, instead of friends that are married and live 20 miles away. I also suggest not to trust your CTG friends that much, since this is only internet.. I might be a real fuckup in real live...
Making friends is not that hard btw, you just have to invest some time in it and go on a sportsclub or something.
New song released (1030 hits) |
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Louigi Verona
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Topics: 384
Replies: 3827
Registered: 22.Aug.03 |
| That's exactly what I'm set for. |
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troupe
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Topics: 6
Replies: 297
Registered: 15.Aug.04 |
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Cooth wrote on 14 Oct. (16:31) :
Right now I feel the urge to vote NO.
But I voted 50/50, because I cannot call my life totally bad. There are better and worse moments. Although personal, career, financial stuff sucks big time, and also I have no clue what I should do with myself - I still leave in peace, still have a home to come back to. I'm not blind so I can watch the beauty of the world. I'm not deaf so I can listen to music. So I guess fifty fifty is the right answer for me.
But I want to ask... why do we all make and answer this kind of poll topics... I bet nobody's gonna read my several lines here, and if so, why would one care... it's just "yet another" personal post, important for myself and for nobody else... stating some regular stuff, special for the poster only, usuall as hell to "third persons"... is that how much some of us need to talk, we write to a forum believing somebody will care as if they were listening to a dear old friend... eh.
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I know this has already been responded to a bunch, but I just wanted to put in my thoughts too. To be honest, there are some people on here that I don't care about. Not that I don't like them, I just don't know them. So people like that I read their thing and go on. But the people I DO care about, that I know, or that I've worked with, etc. are very important to me. When I read Nifflas' post on the front page I got tears in my eyes, because I feel so terrible about what happened to him. A lot of times I feel a connection to people online moreso than I do with people in my real life. I think it has to do with our music. There's another level of expression that we all share that I don't share with my other friends that don't produce music. I don't know if that's true for everyone or not, but it sure is with me.
So in conclusion, even though I haven't talked with you much, I really do care what happens to you, and if you ever need anything, let me know. I don't think these forums could continue without Cooth's gems of wisdom
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ullsokken
Member
Topics: 0
Replies: 2
Registered: 15.Oct.04 |
 No i'm not satisfied, i hate my life. I want more friends. I want people to like me for the person i am.
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PartySan
Artist
Topics: 54
Replies: 6015
Registered: 20.Jun.04 |
PartySan wrote on 15 Oct. (15:09) :
50/50 but I'm more inclined to "No, I'm not satisfied". Explaining why would mean bitching about myself and u don't want to hear that I guess 
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I wondered for some time why I voted "50/50" when I say more inclined to "No", well here's why: I realised this is just a passing-by feeling, sometimes I hate it, sometime me not sure, whatever
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Cooth
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Topics: 59
Replies: 3588
Registered: 02.Jan.03 |
Troupe, thanks man, I really appreaciate that.
I'm feeling bad because I can't do anything right... I'm angry at myself and I feel resigned... And when you feel that way, even small and unimportant failures seem so huge... And damn, some nice people here say I'm wise and mature and all, but I guess it's just because they don't know me that well... In reality I often feel inferior to other ppl, not without reasons I believe... But I'll shut up now. A part of me still beieves it'll be better and I'll do something with my life. Today though is a day when I feel like crap and I don't care and don't want to care about anything. 
Ullsoken, don't ask for more friends, ask for better ones. It's an old truth, but it's still truth.
They say the power of the unsaid can be greater than of what's been said.
That's obvious actually - for each word you just uttered, there are thousands of words you didn't utter. |
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nait08
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Topics: 16
Replies: 1035
Registered: 17.Oct.03 |
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50/50
oh, and I know I'm one of those members that nobody really gives a shit about, but who cares..:
I'm not at all satisfied with my life! I wouldn't call my life normal either, there are so many things I cannot do anymore due to a health condition that got worse since I moved abroad. I can't be spontaneous and do wild things like I used to, I don't even go out anymore because of that. Many times I don't just feel "trapped" in a foreign country, but even in my own apartment. I smoke too much but don't drink enough  My future seems rather uncertain, at the moment studying feels more like a way of killing time (which is accepted by the society) I never even think of what I'm going to do after school! And the scary thing is, I don't even care right now. Recently 2 of my best friends became fathers, everyone is getting adult, starts an own family life, while I still have no clue what to do with my life (I don't count my musical carrer into that ). It really makes me feel immature..
On the other side, although I'm not satisfied with my life, I'm very satisfied with who I am, how I see the world and what I have learned from my crappy life, which makes me appreciate my life very much. That's why I voted 50/50
And Cooth, nobody can care about things all the time, take a break, feel like crap for a while, it's your right as a human And btw, people here are calling you Gandalf, so you've got to be good in something! 
edit: oh and another thing, Cooth: alone from reading some of your posts in this forum since I came to CTG, I think you really can be satisfied and proud of how your life has shaped / is shaping you and your views on things!
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